Navigating finances as a couple is a task that, if agreed upon, can be a source of harmony, or if there’s disagreement, ends up being a source of contention in a relationship. From shared bills to joint goals for savings and retirement, managing money together requires a balance of communication, compromise and, above all, trust.
Whether creating a budget for newly married couples merging accounts or long-term partners looking to refine an approach to money management, having agreed-upon goals can be the key to financial peace and prosperity.
The foundation for any successful financial partnership is establishing shared goals. This is especially true in a romantic relationship. The first thing to do is sit down to discuss your priorities, whether that’s taking a big vacation or purchasing a house together. Having an open mind helps the conversation. While you might not agree on everything, compromise is part of finding the right solution that works for you both.
After ranking your priorities, the next step is to break them down into manageable goals. A straightforward way to do this is to have SMART objectives. By setting Specific goals that are Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound, couples can help get clarity and comfort around sharing finances.
The next step is to make a budget—to break down where money will be allocated. Every couple doesn’t decide to merge bank accounts, and that’s okay. Every couple, married or not, though, must agree on how much of each paycheck goes where. From the start, it’s important to allocate funds for essential expenses, like housing, food and transportation, while also having discretionary spending for entertainment and hobbies. Remember to include contributions to savings and retirement accounts.
Budget apps and tools can make the process easier. Some apps, including those attached to credit and debit cards, can help track spending in real-time, which allows monitoring of where smaller, often forgotten, purchases are going.
Each partner needs to be transparent about their financial obligations. Some people might have student loans, child support, large credit card debt or even owe money for back taxes. These circumstances don’t have to bring budgeting to a halt. However, these commitments must be addressed to prevent resentment from one partner.
Also important is deciding how couples will split household bills and shared expenses. While sharing finances may mean getting a joint bank account for some, it’s splitting bills based on income for others. There is no right or wrong answer as long as both partners are comfortable with the decision.
Transparency is vital in helping build trust and ensuring that a couple’s financial and personal relationship is healthy. When one person makes purchases outside of agreed-upon goals, it can impact relationships. To help avoid surprises and conflicts after setting a spending limit, if one of them anticipates a need to exceed that limit, they should have a conversation about it. If both agree the limit can be exceeded in this one instance, only then can that money be spent.
Another solution is having separate savings accounts into which a set amount is deposited with each paycheck. This option allows each person to feel like they don’t always have to ask permission to make a purchase and also helps when purchasing gifts for each other.
Finally, there should be a discussion about who will be responsible for paying which bills, plus regular check-ins to discuss upcoming bills and current account balances, so each person feels empowered in managing joint finances.
Sharing finances and budgets as a couple is a lot of work that requires open communication, respect and collaboration. Establishing financial goals together and working on a joint budgeting strategy sets a foundation for a financially secure relationship to fulfill shared dreams.
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1Cash back can be redeemed in the form of a statement credit or ACH deposit ($25 cash back minimum redemption). Cash back is not earned on business related transactions or activities. You may not redeem cash back, and you will immediately lose all of your cash back, if your account is closed to future transactions (including, but not limited to, due to Program misuse, failure to pay, bankruptcy, or death). Cash back will expire at 11:00 p.m. Central Time on the last day of the calendar quarter that is five (5) years from the date on which they are earned. Account must be open and in good standing to earn and redeem rewards and benefits. Upon approval, please refer to your Cardmember Agreement for additional information. Cash back is earned on eligible net purchases. Net purchases are purchases minus credits and returns. Not all transactions are eligible to earn cash back, such as Advances, Balance Transfers, and Convenience Checks and other advance transactions as defined in the Cardmember Agreement, as well as interest charges and fees do not qualify. U.S. Bank cannot control how merchants classify their business or transactions and reserves the right to determine which Purchases will qualify in which category. Earn 2% per dollar for qualifying net purchases made with the card through any participating AAA Club when AAA is the merchant of record, on qualifying net insurance purchases (MCC = 6300) and at eligible retail travel merchants. AAA Clubs located in Northern California, Nevada and Utah are not participating AAA Clubs and purchases made at those clubs will not qualify for 2%. Earn 4% per dollar for qualifying net purchases on AAA purchases, travel and insurance for your first 6 months up to $6,000. After that, earn cash back in the standard 2% category. Foreign Transaction Fee: None.
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3Triple Advantage Savings Annual Percentage Yield (APY) is accurate as of 4/1/2025. The minimum amount to open an account is $100.00. Triple Advantage Savings Account Holders can earn the following Annual Percentage Yield (APY): 3.50% APY with Eligible AAA Membership and 3.15% APY without eligible AAA membership.* Deposit products are offered by Grasshopper Bank, N.A. Member FDIC.
4Triple Advantage Savings account holders with a monthly average balance of $25,000.00 or greater receive free outgoing domestic wire transfers. Triple Advantage Savings account holders with a monthly average balance of $24,999.99 or less will be charged a $10 fee for each domestic outgoing wire transfer.
5Triple Advantage Certificate of Deposit (CD) Annual Percentage Yield (APY) is accurate as of 4/14/2025. The minimum deposit to open an account is $500. 4.25% APY applies to a 6-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. 4.20% APY applies to a 9-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. 4.10% APY applies to a 12-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. 3.95% APY applies to an 18-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. 3.75% APY applies to a 24-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. 3.50% APY applies to a 36, 48, and 60-month CD with balances of $500.00 and up. CDs are opened and interest begins on the day the funding deposit is received. The interest rate and APY are fixed for the term of the CD. The APY assumes interest remains on deposit until maturity. Withdrawal of interest before maturity will reduce earnings. A penalty may be imposed for early withdrawal. Fees may reduce earnings on the account. Deposit products are offered by Grasshopper Bank, N.A. Member FDIC.
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An early withdrawal penalty will apply if you withdraw funds before the maturity date. For terms of 6 to 12 months, the penalty is 90 days of interest. For terms of 13 to 60 months, the penalty is 180 days of interest. In accordance with Regulation D, a minimum penalty of 7 days’ simple interest will apply to withdrawals made within 6 days of deposit or within 6 days of a previous withdrawal.
6Triple Advantage Checking Annual Percentage Yield (APY) is accurate as of 4/1/2025. The minimum amount to open an account is $100.00. Triple Advantage Checking Account Holders can earn the following Annual Percentage Yield (APY): 1.00% APY with eligible AAA membership and 0.75% APY without eligible AAA membership.* Deposit products are offered by Grasshopper Bank, N.A. Member FDIC.
7Cash Back rewards offer 1.00% cash back on all qualified purchases made by eligible Triple Advantage Checking account holders with an eligible AAA membership.* To qualify for cash back, Triple Advantage Checking account holders must meet all requirements and a transaction must be deemed as a qualified purchase.
Qualified purchases are signature-based purchases made with a AAA Banking debit card from a Triple Advantage Checking Account. To make a signature-based purchase, select “credit” rather than debit at point-of-sale kiosks. The “credit” option is most often pre-selected when making purchases online using a debit card. Online subscription payments may not be considered signature-based purchases. The payment transaction type (signature-based or other) is ultimately decided by the merchant and how the transaction is transmitted to AAA Banking at the time of processing. AAA Banking reserves the right to determine if a transaction was a qualified purchase, and to establish additional types of qualified purchases that could be made available in a variety of ways. Any goods or services purchased with the debit card that are returned or otherwise credited to the account are not qualified purchases. Unlawful purchases and purchases of currency, cash or cash equivalents (including, without limitation, currency from the U.S. Mint, travelers cheques, gift cards, cryptocurrency, casino chips, peer-to-peer payments, prepaid debit cards, account openings, loan payments, or other cash equivalents) made with a debit card are not qualified purchases. Documentation may be required to validate that certain purchases are qualified purchases. If you or AAA Banking closes the account for any reason before the end of the statement cycle, you will forfeit all rewards accrued through your linked debit card during that statement cycle. The AAA Banking Visa® debit card is issued by Grasshopper Bank, N.A. pursuant to a license from Visa U.S.A. Inc. and may be used everywhere Visa is accepted.
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